At the Door of a Brother
Imam Baqir (a.s.) said:
An angel was once passing by a house, when he witnessed a man standing near its door. The angel questioned him, “Why do you stand here?”
“This is the house of my brother and I wish to greet him,” answered the man.
The angel asked, “Is he of your kith and kin or is it that you are in need of his help that you have come to pay him a visit?”
“The reality is not as you make it out to be. We are just brethren in faith and I only wish to meet him and greet him for the sake of God”.
“I am God’s messenger towards you,” the angel said. “He has sent you His greetings and has said: O’ My Servant! You have paid Me a visit and desired My pleasure and so, as a reward for upholding the rights and sanctity of religious brotherhood, I have made Paradise compulsory for you and have distanced you from My fire and wrath
Namunah-e-Ma’arif, vol. 1, pg. 81; Jaame’ al-Akhbaar, pg. 118.
A Mu’min is the Brother of Another Mu’min
Imam Baqir (a.s.) related:
Once, a group of Muslims had set off on a journey, but in the course of their travel, they lost their way. Their supplies were soon exhausted and they were overcome by intense thirst.
(With no water in sight and imagining their end to be near) they put on their shrouds and sat down, resting themselves against the trees.
Suddenly, an old man in white apparels approached them and said:
“Arise, for you have nothing to fear. Here is some water for you.”
They scrambled for the water and drank to their fill after which, turning to the old man, they said, “May God have mercy upon you! Who are you?”
“I belong to the Jinn community, who had pledged allegiance to the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.). I had heard him say: ‘A Mu’min is the brother of another Mu’min. He is his eyes and his guide (too).’ I could not allow you to die of thirst, while I was here.”
Al-Kafi, vol. 2, ‘The Chapter of Brotherhood of the Mu’mineen’, tr. 10.
Exercise Caution in Reconciliation
A’bd al-Malik says:
There arose a dispute between Imam Baqir (a.s.) and some of the children of Imam Hasan (a.s.). I approached the Imam (a.s.) and sought to intervene in the matter in order to reconcile them, but the Imam (a.s.) advised:
“Do not say a word in this dispute for our problem is like that of the old man from Bani Israel, who had two daughters. One of them was married to a farmer, while the other to a pottery-maker. Once he decided to pay them a visit. He first visited the daughter who was the wife of the farmer and reaching her house, he inquired about her health. The daughter said: “Dear father, my husband has cultivated a large area of land and if it were to rain, we would be the most prosperous of the entire Bani Israel.”
Then, proceeding towards the house of the other daughter, whose husband was a potter, he inquired about her health.
The daughter said, “Dear father, my husband has moulded pots in great quantity and if God were to withhold the rains till his pots dry up, we would be better off than the entire Bani Israel.”
As he departed from the house of his second daughter, he prayed:
“O’ God! Act as You deem fit for, in this situation, I cannot pray for either of them.”
The Imam then said to me, “You too cannot intervene in this matter. Be wary, lest you show disrespect to either of us. Your responsibility towards us, because of our relationship with the Holy Prophet, is to treat all of us with deference and esteem.
Daastaan-ha Wa Pand-ha, vol. 1, pg. 134; Raudhah al-Kafi, pg. 85.
Kindness towards Your Brother in Faith
One of Imam Baqir’s (PBUH) companions, Abi Obadiah, narrates:
I used to accompany Imam Baqir (PBUH) in journeys. During the journeys, I would always climb my mount first, and the Imam would climb his mount after I was seated (This act of Imam Baqir (PBUH) was out of utmost respect).
Whenever our mounts were next to each other, he would converse with me and ask about my health in such a way that seemed as if he had just seen an old friend he had not seen for a long time, even though he had seen me just a few moments ago.
I asked him: “O! Son of Prophet Muhammad, you act completely different from all others when you socialize with others. Your kindness and amenity towards your companions and friends is quite different. Truly it would be appreciable if others did the same in their first contact with each other.”
Imam Baqir (PBUH) replied: “Do you not know the value of Musafihah (shaking hands kindly with friends and believers)? Every time believers do Musafihah, and squeeze the hand of a friend, their sins fall (are forgiven) similar to how the leaves of a tree fall. And they are under Allah’s grace until they separate.”1
In addition, many other sayings by the Imam have been recorded about kindness towards friends and brothers in faith:
“A prayer that is more likely to be answered, and more quickly to be granted, is a prayer for a brother in faith in his absence.”2
He also said: “A pious believer is the brother of a pious believer. One does not insult the other, does not refuse the other, and does not falsely suspect the other.”3
And he advised his companions: “Be lenient when talking to a hypocrite (Munafiq), love the believers with all your heart, and behave well even if you are sitting with a Jew.”4
And finally, he considered one of the most important duties of a believer helping his brother in faith financially.5
(Selected from: “The Political Life of Imam Baqir (PBUH)” by Ahmad Torabi, and “The Family of Infallibles” by Sayyid Taghi Dawoodi)